How to Stimulate your P-Spot with a Prostate Massage

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Anal play is undoubtedly among the most enticing sexual activities! People love anal play because of its taboo elements and for all sorts of fun that can be gained from it. For men, the P-spot can result in profound sexual pleasure and some unforgettable orgasms. 

But what exactly is the P-spot, and how can you massage it to get some of the strongest orgasms you’ve ever had? Firstly, it’s essential to mention that massaging the “male G-spot” can end in a powerful, full-body orgasm. But before you dive in and try to penetrate yourself or someone else, take a look at our full guide below. 

Prostate Gland Function 

The P-spot refers to the male prostate, which is a tiny gland found inside the rectum. This gland is made of muscle. It creates seminal fluid, a component of semen. The seminal fluid helps push the semen out of the penis. Due to this, multiple nerve endings surround the spot. And the reason prostate orgasms are so powerful is that the area contains almost as many nerves as the female clitoris. The prostatic plexus nerves are linked with the tissue that gets filled with blood during erections. 

Moreover, during sexual arousal, the prostate gland swells. However, not every male can orgasm from direct prostate stimulation. But those that do often experience highly intense orgasms. For some, P-spot stimulation or prostate milking can result in a fast stream of continuous orgasms. Additionally, there are some health benefits to the activity. For instance, prostate massage therapy can help clean the prostatic duct. However, not all men will ejaculate during a P-spot orgasm, and some could release a cloudy fluid from their urethra. 

How to Find the Prostate Gland

So how can you locate this magical spot? On average, the gland will be found within two to three inches inside the anus. The spot has a walnut-like shape and is an inch wide. Generally, it is located under the bladder. Since the gland needs to swell, you’ll have to be fully aroused before you try this technique.

The easiest way to locate it is to get an erection and then carefully insert a finger. Then, lightly reach toward your penis. You’ll feel a ridged gland, and this will be the spot where you’ll exert the pressure later on. The trick is to find it with your fingers first and remember where you felt the most pressure. After that, you can also try to stimulate it with toys. 

Additionally, you can perform an external prostate massage, through the perineum. That is the area between the anus and the scrotum. It can be stimulated with circular pressure and a vibrator. While this orgasm feels incredible, milking your prostate internally will be even better!

Why Does Prostate Stimulation Feel Good?

As mentioned, the area is extremely sensitive during sexual arousal. The prostate gland, as well as the anus, is stuffed with nerves. The nerves in the anus are partly the reason anal sex feels so incredible for both men and women. However, the increased blood flow to the prostate makes the area even more sensitive for men. That is why P-spot orgasms are comparable to the female G-spot orgasm. 

Overall, orgasms from the P-spot are deeper, bigger, and they affect the whole body. And another reason prostate stimulation is so pleasurable is that you can combine it with other sexual acts. The most obvious is that you can stimulate the penis while milking your prostate. If you are coupled, your partner can milk your prostate while doing other things that arouse you. However, it’s worth noting that you’ll have to take things easy at first. The P-spot orgasm takes time to build up. In most cases, you’ll need some training before you can experience it fully. Nevertheless, it will definitely be worth it if you’re patient. 

Using Your Finger

As stated earlier, it’s best to start with a finger before moving on to toys. It’s worth emphasizing that internal prostate stimulation can feel different for every guy. Some men can get off right away, while others could get the urge to urinate. Too much force could cause this sensation. Conversely, if you’ve never tried anal penetration before, you’ll need to practice first.

Of course, it’s imperative to clean up before any type of insertion. Take a shower and clean your nails thoroughly. Your nails can contain sharp ends, which could cause tears. That’s why it is vital to keep them clean and smooth. If you need extra protection, wear some latex gloves or a condom. And like we’ve said before, you’ll need to get really horny before using your finger! Try to get a rock-hard erection by fantasizing, watching some porn, or teasing yourself. 

After that, use some lube and massage the prostate or the anus externally to tease yourself even further. When you insert your finger and reach the gland, it’s best to use the fleshy part of your finger to stimulate it lightly. Then, you can determine the type of pressure that is best for you. Some men prefer steady pressure, while others like the sensation of rhythmic stimulation or vibration. 

Using a Sex Toy

After you’ve gotten used to stimulating your P-spot and cumming through prostate massage, you could move on to toys. You’ll be able to find a wide choice of curved toys designed for male prostate massage. You can find vibrators, massagers, dildos, butt plugs, or more. They will allow you to experience all sorts of sensations. For instance, butt plugs will exert consistent pressure on the prostate, while vibrators will introduce vibration at varying speeds. Either way, you’ll also need to be gentle here due to the toys being larger. 

It’s smart to use a water-based or silicone lubricant. And remember, the harder you get, the bigger your prostate will be. The trick with toys is to move them to the spot that you felt with your fingers previously. Then, rest the toy on the spot or move it to put pressure on the prostate. The movement will depend on the type of toy. You can try all sorts of motions and pressure to see what turns you on the most. 

The way to cum with a toy is to masturbate. Bring yourself to the edge by using your hands and the toy simultaneously. Then, just when you are about to cum, increase the pressure on your P-spot. The best way to do that is to move the toy in circles. The increased pressure will give you an unforgettable orgasm.

When to Seek Medical Help

As with any type of anal play, men will need to pay special attention to health and safety. We’ve mentioned before that it’s quite easy to injure yourself during anal play. The way to minimize risk is to clean the area thoroughly. It’s crucial to use a lubricant to avoid friction and to trim your nails. Moreover, the area is highly sensitive, so if you’re not careful, you could experience anal trauma and infections. 

The anus does not self-lubricate, which means some type of lubricant is a must-have. Furthermore, be careful not to touch your penis with the same hand that you have used to stimulate your P-spot. Any type of bacteria transfer could result in redness, bumps, sores, or irritation. If you experience these symptoms, you should contact a doctor urgently. Additionally, talk to a professional if you experience constipation, bleeding, or hemorrhoids. 


As you’ve seen today, the P-spot can give you mind-blowing orgasms, but there are some things that you’ll need to take into consideration first. Nevertheless, if you start gradually and stimulate the area carefully, you could have some of the best orgasms in your life!